Hi, @Alihood64.
Greetings from the Roku Community!
We are deeply sorry for your loss. We understand that this is a difficult time, and you wish to deactivate an account. If you're unable to access the account or don't have any access to it, you may contact our Account and Billing support to get further assistance. Visit the Roku Support page and select the "Account, payments & subscriptions" category. You'll have an option to call or chat with us.
We hope everything is resolved smoothly for you during this time.
Thanks,
Reynan
Reynan L.
Roku Community Moderator