It could be that the remote has overlapping or similar codes to what Roku uses. Try unchecking "1-touch play" under Settings->System->Control other devices. You could also get a Voice Remote and "hide" the Express so that the remote's transmission can't reach the Express. If you can still take it back, you may want to exchange it for the Express 4k+ which comes with a Voice Remote.
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