Someone replied with really helpful information on page 2. Hit the home button 5 times, forward 3 times, rewind 3 times, and then the ok button. A screen will pop up on the right side with some options. Hit "Cycle software update server" It will then give you the option to update now or later, click later. The home screen should pop up.
This worked perfectly for me!!! Thank you!! Had been struggling for hours before tinking of looking here!! Never even heard of secret menu!! Thank you for posting!!!