If the tv has hdmi and the blue-ray player's sound is heard through current stereo, there's reason the roku can't either.
Roku remotes only control TV's directly, sorry. If the stereo was connected to tv by HDMI, it might have been controlled via hdmi-cec. But not in your case with the rca cables.
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