@McKaellen
The Roku Simple Remote ($15, IR only) will not work with a Roku TV. It does not pair to any Roku device, as IR remotes simply don't pair.
The Roku Voice Remote ($20) or Voice Remote Pro ($30) will work with a Roku TV. Those must be paired, and have a pairing button under the batter compartment cover.
Which remote do you have?
DBDukes
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Note: I am not a Roku employee.
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