Greetings from the Roku Community @Schmidthead!
We see that you're unable to pair your Roku remote, and we would like to thank you for your attempts to resolve the issue.
Please be advised that we have different types of Roku remotes and pairing procedures.
You may visit the support article here: How to set up your Roku voice remote. You can check what type of remote you have and the steps to pair it.
If the issue persists, please let us know; we will always be ready to provide further help.
Best regards,
Jharra
Jharra Q.
Roku Community Moderator