There ya go. Trying to tell other people what to say. Typical. "Advice" to live your life? If that's offensive to you, you prove my point. Try ignoring people who don't agree with you rather than attacking them and ordering them around. Live and let live--ever hear of it?
Nothing compels you to answer me, and I have just as much right to my opinion as you do to yours. Further, you don't know what I've "researched" or haven't. MAYBE I've gone down the same paths, and my conclusion is different.
Good luck, good hunting, and godspeed.
Now leave me alone and get back in your mom's basement, little one.