Apple isn't Roku. How on Earth can Roku do anything?
Your plight while it sounds awful is actually not relevant. Your pain level. Your intelligence. Etc were never in question. Please refrain from making this more than it is. Do not give details of your life. Nobody asked.
Apple wants you to own at least one Apple device to create your account on. In lack of such Apple makes the rules. Your beef is with Apple. Not me. Not Roku. Calm your jets. Thanks. 🙂
This is where you start.:
I see no questions asked on that thread. That is likely where Apple would publically address them. They are not going to come to Roku forums to chase this issue. It is beneath them.