Sounds like the remote for your TV is using the same IR codes the Roku uses. This happens with a Vizio TV I have. The problem is, if you block the IR receiver window on the Roku so the TV remote doesn't affect it, then the Roku remote won't work either. Perhaps some placement changes between the Roku and the TV might permit one not affecting the other.
Dan
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