The 3500 purple stick should not pair with a Roku voice remote with tv controls. Without it paired to the Roku it can't program a tv brand in. The 3500 stick can be paired with Roku 3 remotes that have volume keys no tv power, but it then controls the tv by cec instead of IR.
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