The 3810 stick+ cannot be controlled by anything other than remote with pairing button. With 3810 the pairing button is in the battery compartment, so you have to remove the battery door. Also, the stick+ cannot be used without the original usb cable with bump in it, that bump is what the remote and internet communicate with, not the Stick+ itself.
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