A warm welcome here in the Roku Community, @ChipD22!
We'd be more than happy to assist you in pairing your remote to your Roku player.
Firstly, you need a physical remote to connect your Roku player to a network connection. With that being said, this Support article will help you: How to set up your Roku voice remote
If you have further clarifications, please don't hesitate to let us know. Hope this helps!
Best regards,
Carly
Carly Y.
Roku Community Moderator