The Roku Express seems to have an especially difficult time connecting to the network, especially after being updated. You are probably in a better position than most since you have more options to troubleshoot (more TVs and other working Roku devices).
What are all your Roku model numbers? (all four)
The Express can only operate on the 2.4gz network band, so first step is to confirm that your router is configured properly.... Under the Wireless Settings the 2.4gz radio needs to be enabled and broadcasting, protocols set to b/g/n (Mixed), 20mhz Bandwidth, and a channel set between 1 and 11. (not 12, 13, or 14).
You can also try moving the Express to another TV location and see if you can get to connect. But you first have to verify the above conditions. If you download a wifi analyzer app to a mobile device, will make network troubleshooting easier/more visible to you to see what is going on.
If you are still having problems, post back with info from above.
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